🔞SÊX IS ABOUT 9 THINGS👌👌👌
1. CONSENT
You should never force your spouse into having sex. Both of you need to consent to it each time even as a married couple. Don’t be the person who offends your spouse and demands sex when your spouse is hurting.
2. CONSCIENCE
Whatever sexual position you two do, whatever location where you two have sex; both your conscience should be OK with it. Don’t force your spouse to do things that disturb the conscience.
3. MUTUAL ENJOYMENT
It is not just about your sexual pleasure, both of you have to enjoy it. As your spouse makes you feel good, make him/her feel good too.
4. FOREPLAY
Foreplay is not just the touching, licking and rubbing before intercourse; but also treating each other special when sex is not the agenda. This makes your spouse feel your good treatment is not a tactic to get sex, but genuine love.
5. HINDPLAY
Hindplay is treating each other special after the climax. This involves cuddles, kind words, prayer, compliments and acts of service.
6. HYGIENE
Sex being an exchange and mixing of body fluids and collision of bodies; maintain good hygiene. Brush your teeth, shower, wash your vagina well, wash your penis well, wash your butt area well to prevent foul smell, change inner wear, keep your finger nails clean, keep the bedroom clean, smell good. This encourages intimacy.
7. CREATIVITY
It is called love making because you are creating. Avoid monotony, create new memories.
8. COMMUNICATION
Communicate how you want your spouse to please you; don’t suffer in silence and assume your spouse knows. Make requests how you want it. Communicate when it is painful. Communicate when you are made love too well. Moan to encourage your spouse to do it right.
9. CONNECTION
When love making is done right, you two will connect better and deeper as a couple
BEST SLEEPING HABITS FOR MARRIED COUPLES
1. Wear something easy to remove, comfortable and sexy. Make the work of your partner easy to peel off your clothes to reveal the naked you. Yummy lingerie, loose boxer. Sleep na’ked for best results.
2. Brush your teeth to encourage kissing
3. Don’t carry work to bed
4. Minimize the use of phones or laptops. Your partner needs attention, the bedroom is sacred
5. Move the baby to a separate room (if your finances allow you to and you have a home of more than one bedroom) when the baby is of age. The child might have been conceived in the bedroom but is not meant to live in your bedroom that is an exclusive island for two
6. Gentleman have that one spot besides her lips you kiss each night; whether it’s her forehead, fingers, shoulders, back or butt. Lady, stroke him with your gentle touch, your fingers speaking love
7. Make a habit of praising each other’s body, it makes you both comfortable and relax. Talk those bedroom matters
8. Pray together before you sleep, and when you wake up
9. Apologize and forgive if any wrong was done during the day. Don’t sleep with a grudge or anger
10. Read your partner’s body language. If you or your partner desires to make love, then rise to the occasion or wet up to the occasion; whether night or morning glory
11. Have pillow talks, open your heart and lips and talk intimate stuff. Say how you feel; are you troubled, grateful, broken?
12. Cuddle up when you feel sleep is fast approaching, drown into sleep as your bodies intertwine
13. Tell each other how much you mean to each other. Your partner never gets enough of your affirmation
14. Incase one of you farts, laugh about it (some farts are unstoppable)
15. Cover your partner incase you wake up in the middle of the night and find your partner outside the duvet/ blanket
16. Kiss your partner when you come back from peeing in the middle of the night
17. Hold your partner close and pray when your partner wakes up terrified by a nightmare
18. Give a goodnight and goodmorning kiss
19. Spend some few minutes of love in bed even when the alarm wakes you up
20. Carry the love you have for each other even when you leave the bed
Love you all and remains bless.
Carry Minati
